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In the Editor's article Male Masturbation - Introduction, he pointed out that the MAQ, how he calls it (the Male Autoerotic Quickie, that is wanking to porn), can be an unsatisfactory and even detrimental matter. When I did the video for that article, I wondered whether it really has to be that way. Fact is, internet porn (or from other sources) are a fun way to get aroused and live your fantasies. So I contemplated how one could do it in a more sophisticated way. I came up with the following suggestions:
- Select the video you want as visual stimulation beforehand. So you can focus on your pleasure instead of the internet or your device, and "keep your hands to yourself".
- Get your hands free. Even if you use a tablet computer or smartphone, prop it up somehow so you don't have to hold it in your one hand - you might need it otherwise.
- Prepare a cosy (or especially exciting) setup. Nice light, maybe some music, a comfortable chair. So it becomes more of a intentional celebration, and not just a spontanous quickie as you happen to sit at your computer and the urge hits you...
- Get naked! Or dress up in a way that you like. Not just pulling down the pants to get access.
- Use lube - not only the "natural" lube from your mouth, but a good, water-based lube or whatever you prefer.
- Take your time. The video below is much shorter than the actual event - I took at least 20 minutes. So you might have to do some "edging". That is stop your activity shortly before the "point of no return", rest for a moment, and resume. You will be rewarde by a much deeper, more satisfactory orgasm.
- And maybe, as I did, film yourself. For me, that's an additional kick that spices things up.
A more interesting version of wanking in front of a computer
The video available for subscribers is 11'42"