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Welcome to Tom's Autoerotic Journal, the unique resource on the topic of male masturbation, autoeroticism, solo sex, self-pleasure, onanism, or as Woody Allen put it "... sex with someone you love."

This site is indended as an information resource on male masturbation. However, this topic - being a sensual and erotic one - does not tolerate a "dry" treatise. It is in need of a more "juicy" approach. Thus the contents are supplemented by explicit videos and images. I do hope you find them arousing, but I wouldn't like my site to be seen as only pornographic in the strict sense of "the portrayal of sexual subject matter for the exclusive purpose of sexual arousal."

The centrepiece of this site is Tom's Autoerotic Journal, my intimate history of masturbation covering the timespan from early childhood experiences until my current habits. Based on my experiences, I have written numerous articles with facts, basics, tips & tricks, and suggestions on creative ways to increase autoerotic pleasure for men of any age.

The most sensual male masturbation videos on the web

I've been working on this site for more than four years now, and have done much "research", i.e. browsing the web for sensual, appealing videos on this topic, with disappointing results... so I boldly claim that Autoerotic Journal is the best source for sensual and creative male masturbation videos.

About this site

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This site is about male masturbation, pleasing oneself, solo sex, autoeroticism, or whatever word you like to use. It is argued that masturbation is the more important part of sexuality, and that it is a good thing, with many positive effects (if done right), nothing to hide or be ashamed of, but something that can enrich everyone's life.

Male masturbation

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Masturbation can be a lot more fulfilling and creative for any man than just the quick wanking selfie in front of your computer screen or with the smartphone in one hand... Here you can find useful ideas and inspiration on how to spice up your autoerotic life in a way that is good for you.

Guest contributions

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Here, contributions by other authors are presented. You'll find intimate accounts of creative masturbation sessions with videos, as well as comments by and discussions with members regarding the topic at hand.

Tom's Autoerotic Journal

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Read and watch the full story of how Tom's autoerotic habits unfolded throughout his life. This section is the centrepiece of our site. The story is an truely intimate confession, that begins with the earliest sexual impulses in early childhood and continues to date. All episodes are illustrated with fully explicit, reenacted or current videos.

Inspirations

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For your inspiration, I have extracted some ideas from my own experience on how to wake your erotic sensitivity and enrich your autoerotic life. Some come in the shape of exercises (called "Inspirations), others are more in the style of "tips & tricks" or "food for thought".

Latest posts

Post-pandemic visit to my favourite spaTicking off a new spa - successful!
Nov 26th 2022
Many years ago, I already visited this spa, but before I started recording what I went there to do. Now, I checked it out again...

Post-pandemic visit to my favourite spaPost-pandemic visit to my favourite spa
Nov 24th 2022
Visiting my favourite spa shortly after Covid restrictions had been lifted. Conditions were still very good...

Fun on the bedFleshlight pleasures on the bed
Nov 24th 2022
Enjoying myself on the bed, rubbing and humping and with my Fleshlight toys.

At the hotelFleshlight pleasures at the hotel
Nov 23rd 2022
I stayed overnight in the city. In the morning, I used the privacy of the hotel room for a nice Fleshlight session on the bed.

At the new spaAnother day at my favourite spa
Nov 22nd 2022
Seems I'm truly addicted to this place. I'm back again, almost alone in my preferred spa of all time...

Another day at my favourite spaA new spa has opened
Nov 22nd 2022
Lots of pleasure at a new spa, enjoying all its features - and two orgasms.

In the showerFleshlight and Quickshot fun in the hotel shower
Nov 22nd 2022
Enjoying myself in various postures with my favourite toys and lots of lube...

At the jetsRepeat offender enjoying a quiet day at the spa
Nov 17th 2022
Exploring and explaining a new technique: male syntribation-style masturbation

Caught at the jet!Caught in the act!
Nov 16th 2022
Crazy! While using the jets, I got carried away and did not notice a swimmer with goggles approaching....

Inspiration: a guide to spa masturbationSpa masturbation
Nov 8th 2022
Part 1: some considerations as to where and when to go for maximum chances to privacy

Voyeur's delight - updatedVoyeur videos
Nov 7th 2022
Updated and added a video with footage from ladies using the jets.

At the refurbished poolNew possibilities at the refurbished swimming pool
posted Oct 2nd 2022
Public wanking and massage jet pleasures.

Access and Membership

Autoerotic Journal is membership based, but a large part of the contents are accessible for non-members. This site is not a commercial site, and is not financed by advertising. To cover for webhosting, soft- and hardware etc., membership is currently free, but I count on voluntary donations which I see as support for my efforts.
For more information on membership see here: Membership Information

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