This site is about male masturbation, pleasing oneself, solo sex, autoeroticism, or whatever word you like to use. It is argued that masturbation is the more important part of sexuality, and that it is a good thing, with many positive effects (if done right), nothing to hide or be ashamed of, but something that can enrich everyone's life.

Masturbation can be a lot more fulfilling and creative for any man than just the quick wanking selfie in front of your computer screen or with the smartphone in one hand... Here you can find useful ideas and inspiration on how to spice up your autoerotic life in a way that is good for you.

Here, contributions by other authors are presented. You'll find intimate accounts of creative masturbation sessions with videos, as well as comments by and discussions with members regarding the topic at hand.

Read and watch the full story of how Tom's autoerotic habits unfolded throughout his life. This section is the centrepiece of our site. The story is an truely intimate confession, that begins with the earliest sexual impulses in early childhood and continues to date. All episodes are illustrated with fully explicit, reenacted or current videos.

For your inspiration, I have extracted some ideas from my own experience on how to wake your erotic sensitivity and enrich your autoerotic life. Some come in the shape of exercises (called "Inspirations), others are more in the style of "tips & tricks" or "food for thought".